Vaishali Made is a revered and popular voice—as melodious as a nightingale, sweet and flowing with the notes of a song. Listening to her VEDH interview under the theme ‘Saavadh Sahas’ was a treat indeed! The famous singer’s video recently crossed one million views on AVAHAN IPH, the YouTube channel. Well, I was more than happy to follow the lead of this one million. After having experienced this audio-visual-cognitive treat, I take to the keyboard.
We each meet many people who are gifted—gifted with words, musical notes, thoughts, numbers, kinesthetic acumen, paints, and whatnot! Some of these persons work on these talents actively, and choose it as their career- path. Others are happy to cherish their talent at an individual level, reaping satisfaction away from the eyes of the society. Although, the best kind of experience can be imagined as this: A confluence of how one’s talent, when chosen as their career, brings one typical material success, as well as self- development and happiness. Does this not summarize the singer’s journey?
I would now like to take you a little astray, only to bring you back to the topic. ‘Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs’ is a theory of psychological health, given by the famous American psychologist Abraham Maslow. It says that human needs can be arranged into a hierarchy, from the most basic ones like food, shelter and clothing; to transcendental pursuits. It further propagates that humans are innately driven to scale the pyramid, fulfilling each need in a specific order, as they progress. The attached diagram will give the readers an idea about the theory. For the scope of this blog, I will leave aside the limitations of this theory, and exceptions to it; And focus on our faculty—Vaishali Made, in the context of Maslow’s hierarchy. Oh, she sure scaled up the pyramid…fulfilling the basic needs of her family, earning security, a social standing, fulfilling her esteem needs even after having experienced failures, right up to experiencing moments of oneness with the supreme power. Instead of scaling it on her two firm feet, she scaled it with her voice. Which brings me to, maybe all of us, as a function of being human, are meant to scale up the pyramid. Or try scaling it, at least. But in deciding how we scale it, with what tools and qualities lies our true signature.

A humanist like Maslow would say, “Vaishali found herself through her talent”. A Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapist like Dr. Albert Ellis would say that she used what was in her control (her talent) to change what was beyond her control (her circumstances). But we still talk about ‘what’ she did and accomplished. Shall we go on to the ‘how’ of it?—the process that took her to the higher steps of the hierarchy? There were challenges on the way, failures—like in any journey worth sharing with others. And more importantly for us, learnings that we can use to scale our own heights and ladders. Aspiring for the uncommon, the difficult, requires courage. Working towards those aspirations more so! For what is courage but consistency in the face of failure?
Vaishali Made’s journey is apt for the theme ‘Saavadh Sahas‘. The way I look at it: aspiring, but throwing oneself into the fray without the necessary knowledge of a career field is a recipe for recklessness garnished with sumptuous amounts of overconfidence. But hard work, tenacity, perseverance is what makes it a calculated risk, or courage. For again, what is courage, if not a blend of hard work and tenacity for one’s aspirations? And what is the recipe for that, you lady who is just typing away, you ask? I give you two basic ingredients—goal clarity (What I really want), and motivation (to really want what you want). Courage will be a dish born out of this, isn’t it?
As parting words to all aspirants out there, I give you what my dearest Abba always blesses me with, “Be bright, Be brave!”
-Ketaki Joshi,
Thane.
To watch Vaishali Made’s VEDH interview on AVAHAN, click here.











